Welcome to Finding Tate!!

Posted: Apr 11, 2026 02:02:37

Hi, I’m Tatum 🤍 I’m a stay at home mom of two little ones, doing my best to keep everyone fed, somewhat clean, and alive by bedtime (which, honestly, feels like a solid win most days). Before becoming a mom to my own babies, I stepped into the role of a stepmom, an experience that shaped me in ways I never expected. It taught me patience, grace, and how to grow through seasons that aren’t always simple. This little corner of the internet’ Finding Tate’ was created as a way for me to hold onto the moments that often slip by in the middle of the chaos. The early mornings, the long evenings, the messes, the milestones, and everything in between. Here, I share real-life motherhood with a cozy, honest touch; simple routines, things I’m loving, lessons I’m learning (sometimes the hard way), and reminders that it’s okay if you reheated your coffee three times and still didn’t finish it. If you’re in a similar season of life, I hope you feel a little less alone here, and maybe even find a bit of yourself along the way, too.