Finding Yourself Again
Posted: Aug 21, 2026 13:43:39I’ve been thinking a lot lately about hobbies. Not because I desperately need another thing to add to my already ful...
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I Deleted (Almost) All my Social Media
Posted: Jul 14, 2026 01:40:29There was a time when the first thing I reached for every morning wasn’t my coffee. It was my phone. Before my fe...
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Surviving Colic
Posted: Jun 29, 2026 17:27:19When people talk about having a baby, they often talk about the sweet newborn snuggles, tiny outfits, and sleepy smile...
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Marriage Changes
Posted: Jun 16, 2026 00:39:53There’s this quiet shift that happens after kids. It’s not loud or dramatic at first, it's subtle. You go fr...
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Turning 2
Posted: May 26, 2026 16:44:06She’s almost two. I keep catching myself looking at her and wondering how the same little girl who once fit against...
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Chilling Out
Posted: May 11, 2026 16:14:49There’s this quiet pressure that sneaks into motherhood without asking permission. The kind that whispers you shou...
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Evening Routine
Posted: May 04, 2026 22:57:44I won’t lie, there are absolutely nights where I am staring at the clock waiting for my husband to come home. The day ...
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New Found Joy
Posted: Apr 27, 2026 13:24:47I always thought I understood what joy felt like. I’d felt happiness in big moments, in quiet ones, in laughter th...
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Grief in motherhood
Posted: Apr 23, 2026 09:38:35There are moments in motherhood that feel so full, so loud with love… and somehow, so quietly heavy at the same time. ...
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Stepmomming in Hindsight
Posted: Apr 20, 2026 11:24:38There was a version of me, not that long ago, who thought she understood what becoming a stepmom would look like. ...
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Our Love Story
Posted: Apr 16, 2026 10:57:54There’s something a little ironic about our love story… because it started in the one place I swore I’d never find it....
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Holidays as a Mom
Posted: Apr 13, 2026 15:21:01There’s something about holidays that feels entirely different once you become a mom. Before, they were fun. Someth...
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FriendShip in Motherhood
Posted: Apr 11, 2026 02:03:58There’s a version of motherhood I imagined before I stepped into it, one filled with coffee dates, shared stroller wal...
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Welcome to Finding Tate!!
Posted: Apr 11, 2026 02:02:37Hi, I’m Tatum 🤍 I’m a stay at home mom of two little ones, doing my best to keep everyone fed, somewhat clean, and a...
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